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Crystal — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 00:30:00 -0000

I love reading your stories about your family.
Our Christmas tradition is spending Christmas Eve with all of the aunts, uncles, and cousins on my mom's mom's (my nana) side of the family. My Nana has 10 brothers and sisters who all have kids and grandkids, and they've been doing the annual Christmas Eve thing forever. We all meet up at the "old place," which was my great grandparents house. This house is way out in the country, and most of the family ended up living "in town," and through the years, going out there has become known as "going across the river." In the old days, before there was a good bridge, going across that river was a big deal. Not everyone comes every year, but that little house is always bursting at the seams. We eat lots of great food, and exchange gifts with people whose names we drew. To end the night, the guys shoot off a fireworks show for everyone to enjoy while they're standing around the bonfire.

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The Alberts — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 00:02:00 -0000

We've never lived close to family, so we didn't have any celebrations or traditions with extended family. Just lots of talking on the phone to send happy wishes.

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Amy — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 23:58:00 -0000

My dad would always hold an auction on Christmas Eve. It's kind-of hard to explain, but dad would gather gifts throughout the year and use them at the auction. The youngest cousin would draw names out of a hat and the person picked could pick between two items my dad set aside. When everones name was called they had the choice of auctioning their gift off, trading it, or keeping it. The gifts ranged from a shovel, bath items, or a ham! It was always a lot of fun!

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Lauratina — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 23:15:00 -0000

We have a HUGE family on both sides, Mom's and Dad's, so too many cousins to really count. I mean, my Aunt Mary alone has 11 children, so there you go.

Anyway, extended family Christmas' were lively and chaotic and fun as could be, and we were never at a loss for playmates. That said, I'd have to say that my favorite tradition with extended family has less to do with the cousins and more to do with the Uncles and Dad, and this would pertain to the Christmas get-together on Christmas Eve on my mom's side.

At some point in time after our light supper and after we kids opened our gifts (NOT one at a time but all at once!), my dad and the uncles would loudly announce that they were going Christmas caroling. Now, it was completely plausible to me that they would do so for I have a Dad who has a singing voice very much akin to Frank Sinatra, and that's no joke!
So I was really proud that Dad was a part of something that would give anyone priviledged enough to hear him sing such great pleasure!

.....it was years later that I was completely shocked to learn that the Christmas caroling never happened! Nope, instead, they went to each other's homes and 'played Santa Claus so that when we left for home afterward, we would come home to find that Santa had already been to our house!

Beautiful canvas! Random.org, pick me, pick me! :)

Blessings to you, dear Sara!
Lauratina

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Stephanie — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 22:44:00 -0000

Most of my family live in Middle Tennessee, so we see each other pretty regularly. Other than going to my Grandmother's house, we don't really have any traditions....is that sad or what?

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ISO (In search of) — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 21:19:00 -0000

Not really "extended family" I guess since the cousins on my mom's side live amid the knee deep snow and my dad's one brother lives clear across the country.

My siblings and I along with their families plan a day--usually a weekend day and we get together and exchange presents. The adults all draw names on Thanksgiving so everyone has time for a stress free shopping experience--usually. Of course all the nieces and nephews get to ramble around together and open a ton of presents. One of my sisters compiled a dvd of the 1997 celebration and I have to say I really enjoy looking back and remembering all the fun we've had together. God has truly blessed me where family is concerned.

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Brandolynicole — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 21:04:00 -0000

When I was little we would spend the night at my Granny and Papa's house with our aunts and uncles and cousins. We'd wake up together and do breakfast and presents then have a late lunch/early dinner. I remember me and my sister putting on a "play" for everyone or doing a dance for them in our new outfits. LOL! I always loved spending that time at their house. As a kid it all seemed so magical!

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Kim@ForeverWherever — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 19:34:00 -0000

We used to always get together on Christmas Eve, but now the family is so large! It's been a few years since we've done it. Have a great Christmas!

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peata — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 18:53:00 -0000

love the canvas.
making mini albums
mini album blog

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Annette — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 17:48:00 -0000

My family was too far away from relatives and so we had our own Christmas's. We celebrated on Christmas Eve because my dad usually had to work on Christmas day. I still love Christmas Eve.

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denali — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 16:42:00 -0000

We used to do a family drawing with everyone (50+ people!). Well, two drawings: adults & children. But that went south a couple of years ago when one person failed to buy their person a gift. Broke my heart (not because I was the one who didn't receive a gift) but because it was my favorite part of Christmas with my extended family. We would all open our gifts one person at a time - it took HOURS. Hours filled with cheer and food and love and happiness and not a little teasing and horsing around. This year, though, we are all (well, a lot of us) are getting together at Gram & Grampa's the Saturday after Christmas, and everyone is bringing a $20 gift. We'll randomly draw & figure out sharing when we get there. I see a lot of trading and wheeling & dealing in our future. Should be a blast!

BTW, the family is in Iowa, so I'll be up there SOON! :)

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Debra — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 16:17:00 -0000

To the random.org choosing machine ... pick me! pick me! :)

And to you Gitz, these are awesome. I think today's canvas is my favorite! You sound like me with the camera. I document our whole lives and it is AWESOME! Of course I am nine years behind in scrapping, but someday! :) You are so creative ... seriously!

As to the traditions, we didn't live close enough for traditions with my cousins, although now my mom's side of the family gets together every year for what we call "Hoopla" on Memorial Weekend, so the cousins and all are kids are drawn together in this wonderful tradition.

But, my hubby's family (8 kids, plus their kids and now grandkids) get together on the first Saturday of December to celebrate Christmas. All kids 18 and under get their names drawn for a gift that all adults 18 and older get to give. It is great fun to just spend the day together catching up, playing, eating and enjoying one another's company.

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JAMIE — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:03:00 -0000

We always do Christmas with My MOMs side of the family on ChristMAS IN THE AFTERNOON. we SO A WHITE ELEPHANT GIFT EXCHANGE WHICH IS ALWAYS A BLAST
JAMIE

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Breezy's Mom — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 14:16:00 -0000

Growing up my mom's side of the family would always get together on Christmas Day. We cousins would have a blast playing together. But then we grew up & some moved away, we got married & started having kids. So we don't get together for Christmas anymore but we were all together recently on Thanksgiving Day...1st time in many years.

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brandiandboys — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 14:02:00 -0000

can i buy these from you next year as christmas gifts? i love them!!

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Sharleen — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 13:43:00 -0000

For as long as I can remember my Mom's side of the family has always gotten together for Christmas. We actually just had our Christmas get-together this past Sunday.
There is my grandmother, who was widowed in 1968. My mom is one of 5 children. I am one of the 11 grandkids,and there are currently 9 great grandkids. As the years have gone on you can imagine how our numbers have grown. We used to do a gift exchange where we would pick names, but we no longer do that. A couple years ago we tried doing a "dirty Santa" gift exchange...I've heard it called other names as well. It's the one where you get to steal gifts from one another if you like the other person's gift better. Well that got a little ugly so we have not done it since. LOL
Right now it's just about getting together with one another and food of course. We have started a new tradition over the past few years where my mother makes a birthday cake and we sing "Happy Birthday" to Jesus. I know this tradition has really helped my 4 yr old son have a tangible impression of why we celebrate Christmas. Any time I ask him why we celebrate Christmas he confidently replies...."because it's Jesus' birthday!"

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Pen to Paper; Spirit to Soul — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 13:24:00 -0000

I'm not leaving a comment for this particular blog but just to say that I read your comment on MckMama's blog and wanted to let you know....I read the comments you leave on other's and am always impressed! You have such a tender heart. You are the embodiment of a single woman that is not sitting around waiting for something or someone but rather reaching out and touching all who come near with love, life and joy!
Thank you for sharing your life in the blog world!

Pamela in TX

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Coloradolady — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 13:14:00 -0000

We always spent Christmas with my Grandparents on my dad's side of the family. I had one cousin who we shared Christmas with! It was the best of times.

My other cousins lived in other states, we usually saw them a couple of times a year, but never during the holidays.

Wonderful week we are having reading all the comments....so much fun!

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The House on Ranchero — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 12:59:00 -0000

I can vividly remember going to my Grandma's house around Christmas time and walking into her house so full of excitement. The first thing I saw was fresh apple and cherry pies sitting on the ledge to the kitchen ( surprised we never knocked them off the ledge since my sisters and I were pushing each other out of the way to get close to them!). We would ALWAYS get a new pair of Grandma-made jammies for our gift, eat a big meal, and hang out in her lovely home.
Now, we go to my Mom and Dad's house for a a fun and crazy day of food, fun, and lots of family. I have 4 sisters and we LOVE to be together at Christmas. There are 9 grandchildren and they LOVE to go sledding on Christmas in the backyard. I love seeing my Mom and Dad at the back window watching their grandchildren...they always have big, beautiful smiles on their faces!!!!

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marisa — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 12:30:00 -0000

Actually no, as sad as that is. When we were kids, we spent alot of time with our first cousins on the holidays, but now that we are grown up and moved away, we dont see each other anymore.
:( Now I am sad!

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Sherri — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 12:20:00 -0000

I was an Army brat so I rarely saw any of my mom or my dad's families when I was growing up unless it was to pass quickly through their town on our way to Dad's next post. I knew my cousins, but was not close to them...and am not today. And I cannot remember a Christmas spent with anyone other than my immediate family.

I had my children long before my brother had his so there is a 20 year difference in ages...and a huge difference in religious observance so we never celebrated with them, either.

Today, we're just too geographically wide spread as a family to spend holidays together and the children are of an age that they prefer to celebrate at home with their families and friends. We will travel to our younger daughter's place 2 hours from here and spend Chritmas Eve with her and her family. I love our Christmas Eves together whether it is here or at her place. We'll spend time on the phone with the other kids and their kids and see them another time during the year for family time.

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Tom and Nancy — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 12:07:00 -0000

I have three sisters but only one first cousin and our family got together with that family at Thanksgiving. So, no extended family Christmas tradition there. On the other hand, my husband has many first cousins and they all met at the grandparent's house the Saturday of the weekend before Christmas and all have wonderful memories of those times.

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Denise — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 11:31:00 -0000

My side of the family still all gets together with my mom's extended family. Aunts, uncles, cousins, second cousins . . . it's becoming a crowd for sure, but that's how we've always spent our Christmas Eves, and I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. Except maybe a "Choose Joy" sign made by you : ) My absolute favorite one, by far!

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Heidi L. — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 11:15:00 -0000

Our Christmas is all about extended family! Since all sides of both of our families live in the same town, we have always tried to do everything. We usually start Christmas eve, then have a lunch at noon, a 4:00 meal, then dessert/games at the final house. Every year we run like crazy people trying to fulfill all 4 of our different family obligations. This year, now that we are the ones that moved away, we are staying in Arkansas for Christmas. It is sad to miss out on all the traditional fun, but we are SO looking forward to making new traditions with our own children on Christmas Eve and Christmas morning.

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caperky1 — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 10:58:00 -0000

This is about the same as my post yesterday. :) We would gather with my aunt, uncle and cousins and sing Christmas carols at our house on Christmas Eve. Then we'd go to candlelight church service. We would take my grandparents and cousins and drink hot cocoa while we drove around looking at Christmas lights either on our way to church or on the way home, depending what time service was.